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Massive Struggles During College Life

Challenges always start from birth and last till the end of life. Having problems or facing troubles is always a part of life. College struggle is one of them which casts a shadow on the hearts and minds of teenagers.  Rough patches are still a part of student life. When a teenager comes to college, they have lots of thoughts and Delima that they don’t know how to tackle or cure, there is a lack of guidance from the parents and their social life. I personally think during this period, parents can play a massive role in their child’s life, they can talk to them and clear their thoughts, and anxiety. 

 

It is important for a student to share their thoughts, problems, ideas, and feeling with their parents and their elder ones or they can choose their friends for solving issues and gets proper guidance. If you got are a student or your college life is not going so great then take a break and think about yourself, choose the best people who will help you to get out of this. If you are on the way to college, then you need to find out the best ways to deal with these challenges.

6 Struggles of a college student:

1.   Lack of Time management 

2.   Lack of communication skills 

3.   Problem of socializing 

4.   Distraction from studies 

5.   Financial dependency 

6.   Family and society expectations 

Lack of time management :

Solution: If you are on the way to college and you really want to manage your time, then you need to balance your professional life and your personal life so that you can solve things correctly, and you can manage your time according to your academics. Use fewer phones, only you can use them whenever you need to search for something, this will help you to pay attention to your work and avoid distractions.  Make a schedule that can simplify your daily activity, or you can also make a to-do list to make your job easier. 

Lack of communication skills :

Problem:  As a north Indian, you always have insecurity regarding communion skills. You still had a lot of queries regarding pronouncing, speaking correct sentences, and many more. don’t be overthinking it, nobody is perfect, and you don’t need to be ashamed if you are not able to speak English or any other language which is not your mother tongue. Speech and language difficulties also generate personality differences among studies.

Solution:  The biggest mistake we make is that we interpret communication. Students have a problem conveying their messages, and their thoughts in front of their teachers and friends, they are insecure if they will speak wrong or incorrect pronounce, and people will make fun of them. all you need to do this just be confident and have some passions.No one can learn anything in a single day, experiences, and failures can make a person more challenging and helps a person to grow as an individual. A student can work on their vocabulary, can use short and simple sentences, don’t make it more complicated, and do an everyday practice with their family and friends. Don’t make it hard for yourself, just work hard, and do daily exercise. The best mantra, whenever you are doing or learning something, is just to do it for yourself, for your growth not to impress anyone. 

The problem of socializing:

MY STORY: When I came to a college, I was a fresher, I was a shy personality, I don’t know how to make friends, how to make my own group, a newcomer always deal with these problems as I was but after the orientation program, many of students came to me. They found me Interested and straightforward at that point. I made good friends. Actually, I don’t believe in quantity, I believe in quality, so I made some good buddies in my college life. 

Solution: not every shy person needs to be found shy in every situation. If you said that I am a shy person. is that mean that you feel shy about talking with your mom and your sister? No, you don’t feel shy in some situations, then what to do, when you were in a school, you have your own personality that you can’t change overnight. There are many places where no image of yours is made like clubs, any social group, friend circle, etc . whenever you join any course, from the very first day all you need to think that you are a new person, you have different opinions, you are perfect for everything because shyness has some causes like fear of being fat, being dark, being ugly, just say yourself that you are enough for everything. You feel wired in the beginning, but after some time, your beliefs become your strength, and your mind will support your thoughts. Always remember not to be afraid of rejections, ever learn from the rejections and trust yourself.

Distraction from studies :

Problem: Things that give you temporary pleasures that become a pain after some time are always a distraction for a student. Using cell phones unnecessarily, watching baseless youtube videos, social media scrolling, getting attracted from the opposite gender, sleeping, or laziness will make you distracted from your goals. Many students get distracted from internet services, sometimes they get influenced by various websites or services available on the internet. Every student should correctly use technology. Every technology comes with pros and causes. Yes, there is soo much information load and distraction. Only you can help yourself by not being distracted. 

Solution: How can you change it? How you can secure yourself from distractions? Just change the direction of the mind. This power is too loud. You can’t control it, but you can change the course, you can direct the energies of the brain. This is just a desire of students, some have positive, constructive while others have wasting of energies and taking fun.

How to avoid distraction while studying:

1.  Take short breaks while considering.

2.  Set targets and challenge yourself while studying.

3.  Gift yourself after completing academic objectives for self-motivation. 

Financial dependency : 

Problem: In today’s world, money or financial dependency will become a constant struggle among students. financial stress always makes everything harder. As a student, you should stop wasting your savings on phones, parting, holidays, or any kind of luxury item because when we entered college, we spent money on expensive things just for building our image. Some students lived in their rented apartments instead of living with their parents. as a grown-up, we need to control our debts or expenses so that we can save money for our crucial times. 

Family and society expectations: